Don’t feel bad for making decisions that upset other people. You are not responsible for their happiness. You are responsible for yours.
Decision Making is Up to You
The decision is always yours
Today I dedicate this video to my friend Putul. Putul has recently been impaneled in the West Bengal SSC & got 5th Rank, So Congratulations Putul! Uff nowadays, the joy of getting a job. Only Bela Bose knows that. Did not you understand? Then watch the following video.
Yes, exactly 2441139. – Bela Bose. Anyways, let’s go to the topic. But, before going to the main topic, you may watch the video on Decision Making, we’ve made it in three languages. (Watch – Bengali Version, Hindi Version, English Version).
Actually, I am not only dedicating this video to Putul but to all those friends who take the important decisions of their life on someone else’s reference. Three days ago, Putul had called me, anyway, she was feeling very happy that she got a job in such a bear market – but on the other hand, she seemed a little confused. I asked her, “Are you confused about anything?” She said, “Yes, I’m a little confused.” And she said me to give a decision on a matter, I said, “Me? Well, you first say what’s the matter, if it seems that I can give, then I will definitely give it.” Then from across the phone, she said – “My rank is 5th, maybe for school selection I can get many options, at home everyone is saying to take the school near home but I don’t want to take it, I don’t understand what should I do,” in response to this I said, “I’ll take a little time for thinking about it.”
On that day, I could have given her my decision, but this would not have been possible for me to make her understand that the important decisions of someone’s life cannot be taken or given by us, a decision should always be taken by yourself, we can get advice from everyone or we can give advice to everyone but we cannot give decision, taking a decision is a very personal matter, so if you do not want to regret in your life, then always take decisions yourself.
Our decision is never stable; it depends on various matters such as family, time, circumstance, satisfaction etc.
For example, if I talk about myself, in my childhood I liked eating chocolate so much that I thought that when I will grow up I will work in a Chocolate Company. You may be laughing right now, but think well, you too might have thought of something crazy like this in childhood. But gradually with time and circumstance, you will see that your desire has changed too. Therefore, a decision should always be taken by keeping in mind the time and condition.
So, I Think, now you have also known that Decision Always changes with – Situation & time, so Decision should always be taken into consideration – according to your convenience, your desire, your liking. So I say – take the decision yourself, by this you will not have to regret in future and will not have to blame anyone. – We can only give you suggestions. Therefore, you will have to take the final decision that whether you will marry Ram or Shyam.
So do not make any further mistakes, take advice but do not let anyone take the decision of your life, and Putul I am also saying it to you that the decision is always yours, I cannot give you the decision, maybe I can suggest a little bit. Hopefully, after watching this video/reading this article you will no longer have any confusion and will take your decision easily.
Anyways friends, whether there is anybody else or not but Positive Thinking is always with you. So, Think Positive, Do Positive & Go Ahead, Thank You…!